Think back to your very first break-up — maybe middle school or high school. Remember how devastating that felt? Multiply that by the end of a marriage, a family unit, and the promise of “forever.” Add in fears about finding love again, sadness for your children, financial uncertainty, and even the potential loss of extended family… and it makes perfect sense that divorce feels unbearable.

Even the most civil divorces carry grief. The emotions will come no matter what. My role as your divorce bestie is to help you manage the known factors — legal, financial, and logistical — so you can focus on healing and moving forward.

First, I see you. Overwhelm is real — I’ve been there, when it felt like the world was caving in. Here’s my promise: one day, you will wake up and you’ll feel at peace again.

The space between today’s chaos and tomorrow’s calm is where I can help. I combine compassion for where you are now with practical knowledge of legal and financial processes and clear, strategic divorce planning based on what you want for your future. Together, we’ll turn overwhelm into empowerment.

It’s natural to fear the unknown. We’re here with this bit of comfort…what’s unknown to you has been navigated by many women before — myself included. I know how consuming the fear feels. I’ve got you. And our community has you.

We’ll create a step-by-step divorce roadmap so you can see what lies ahead. That plan will bring calm where there is chaos. As your confidence grows, so does your courage — until one day, you notice that anxiety has been replaced by an unshakable inner peace.

You’re right — divorce is costly. But the key is efficiency. When you’re prepared, you spend less time (and less money) with your attorney, accountant, or therapist.

• Attorney ($450/hr): They need facts. I’ll help you organize them at a fraction of the cost.

• Accountant ($400/hr): They need data. I’ll help you make sense of budgets and statements when numbers blur through tears.

• Therapist ($200/hr): They’re vital — but not always available in your hardest moments. I’m not a therapist, but I am your objective bestie, ready to listen and offer grounded advice when you need it most.

  Greater efficiency = less time. Less time = less money. Working with me often saves clients thousands.

Every state has its own processes, forms, and timelines. A “normal” divorce might involve no kids, no pets, minimal assets, little debt, and two stable incomes.

When children, mixed assets, debt, or uneven income come into play — especially in a community property state — things get more complex, a bit abnormal.  Abnormal isn’t bad, it just means you’ll need a tailored plan. Together we’ll create a strategic roadmap to guide your unique journey and get you back to your own new normal.

First off: I believe you. You’re not overreacting.

I’ve lived through a high-conflict divorce that still delivers aftershocks years later. Beyond my personal experience, our community connects you with a growing network of trusted attorneys, mediators, therapists, and financial experts — people you can lean on, learn from, and trust.

Sorry guys! To borrow from Taylor Swift: “If I were a man, I’d be the man.” But I’m a girl — and a girl’s girl at that. My mission is to help women reclaim their power and step into the most confident, badass versions of themselves.

Absolutely. Support has no expiration date. Look how brave you’ve been handling this on your own so far! Our community includes women at every stage of divorce. We meet you where you are, whether you’re just starting, in the middle, or working on life after.