The system is built to work against you.
It's time to outsmart the sytems and secure your future.
Divorce isn’t just emotional — it’s strategic.
My Divorce Bestie helps women reclaim their power to navigate the divorce with confidence and smart financial strategy, so you can protect what’s yours, make clear decisions, and rebuild a future that actually feels like yours.
You don’t need to spiral. You don’t need to guess. And you definitely don’t need to hand over your power.
You need clarity, strategy, and someone in your corner who understands both the emotional weight and the financial reality of divorce.
WHERE EMOTIONAL STRENGTH MEETS FINANCIAL STRATEGY
Divorce can make even the smartest women freeze.
You’re overwhelmed. You’re second‑guessing yourself. Everyone has advice — but no one is explaining how this actually works or what matters most for your situation.
That’s where I come in.
I help women slow the chaos, understand their financial landscape, and make confident, strategic moves — without fear, pressure, or legal overwhelm.
This is about protecting your peace and your future.
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Meet Desirae — your Divorce Bestie
I’m a tax consultant by profession, a divorce strategist by experience, and a former small‑business owner for nearly 20 years.
I’ve been through divorce myself — and I know how confusing, isolating, and unfair the process can feel when you don’t fully understand the financial side.
With a background in accounting, tax strategy, and business operations, I help women see what others miss, ask better questions, and make decisions from clarity — not fear.
Think of me as the friend who brings coffee, sits at the kitchen table, and says:
“He sucks. You're amazing. You've got this and I'll be with you every step of the way.”
READ MY STORY
Desirae has been my rock throughout a very complicated, high-conflict divorce. Her compassion, willingness, and availability to help me through a very difficult and stressful time has been immeasurable. Additionally, Desirae’s business acumen and ability to explain complex financial and legal details in simple terms has been invaluable. I can’t recommend her enough.
- Leigh, 52
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