Hi, I’m Desirae and I’m your divorce bestie.

I’m a tax consultant and business owner with degrees in Business, Accounting and Tax Law. And I’ve been right where you.

I’ve been sad, alone and crying over a future that looked so bleak, even though I was the one to blow up my marriage. I’ve felt outraged and betrayed and misunderstood. Most importantly, I’ve felt lost.

Divorce can turn your life upside down and make you lose your footing. My goal in life is to help women bring order to the chaos, turning overwhelm into a path they can easily follow, even allowing for a few detours along the way.

I’m not an attorney, CPA or therapist - nor do I repace any of those licensed professionals. I am your Concierge Divorce Consultant: The steady, non-judgmental partner who helps you plan your next move, communicate clearly and protect your peace while the legal and therapeutic pros do their job.

We’ll laugh together, we’ll cry together, we’ll carefully craft the next chapter you desire and deserve.

Strategy, structure and sisterly support - so you don’t have to do this alone.

About Me

I’m Desirae, but my besties call me Des.

(You may be wondering why I chose a selfie of me pruning my garden as a profile picture.)

You see, prior to my divorce, I refused to do yard work. I don’t like to sweat and I don’t like dirt under my fingernails. Post divorce, my brown thumb is now a vibrant green. Turns out, nurturing my fruit trees and garden nurtures me, body and soul.

I had besties during my divorce who helped me survive the toughest years of my life. I couldn’t have made it through without them. Even with their support, I felt incredibly lonely so much of the time.

I don’t believe anyone should go through this process alone and yet I know that not everyone has a support group they can rely on to understand what they are going through.

Caring for and helping others find safety, stability, love and joy in life fills my cup. I offer a safe space, a virtual shoulder to cry on and compassionate, strategic advice to help you become the best version of yourself. I can’t wait to meet you!

I am a proud mom of two college aged girls who have flown the nest. My other five children are furry and four legged and will never leave home.

SERVICES AND RESOURCES

1:1 Coaching

Community Resources and Connection

I DON’T: The Playbook For Planning Your Divorce Like You Planned Your Wedding (eBook and Workbook)

Financial, Budgeting and Accounting Support

GO TO STORE

What Our Clients Are Saying

Discover the empowering stories of our clients who found clarity and support with My Divorce Bestie.

Desirae has been my rock throughout a very complicated, high-conflict divorce.  Her compassion, willingness, and availability to help me through a very difficult and stressful time has been immeasurable.  Additionally, Desirae’s business acumen and ability to explain complex financial and legal details in simple terms has been invaluable.  I can’t recommend her enough.

– BAS

“Desirae helped me put together clear, solid court documents and coached me on what to say in court. Her assistance made me more confident and better prepared.”

- CM

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  • TOTAL SUPPORT FOR THE LONG HAUL

    “As someone who is in the process of divorce, Desirae’s support has been unsurmountable.  My case is high-conflict and complicated.  Her compassion, willingness, and availability to talk at any time continues to help me navigate through a difficult and stressful period in my life.  Beyond her compassion, Desirae’s financial expertise and tax knowledge have been invaluable.  As assets were divided, she was able to explain complex financial and tax implications into clear, understandable terms.  Desirae has also helped me work through legal documents, draft responses, and approach the process with confidence.  Desirae’s support and guidance through this challenging time has played a critical role and I cannot recommend her enough.”
    – BAS

  • effective communication assistance

    “I was already divorced when I was referred to Desirae, but I’ve had to go back to court a few times for child support issues. Since I decided to represent myself, she was a huge help in making sure I was ready. She worked with me to write clear, concise responses for my filings and even ran through how I should present myself if given the chance to speak in court. What I appreciated most is that she listens, asks the right questions, and makes sure nothing gets overlooked. With her help, I felt a lot more confident walking into the courtroom.”
    – CM